The Untamed Intimacy App
Untamed Intimacy is a relationship health and growth app that gives you a clear picture of your relationship today — what is strong, what is less consistent, and where your attention can make the biggest difference.
COMING SOON
Start with the Sexy Secure Love Assessment to get your Sexy Secure Love Score and see how your relationship is functioning across the core areas that make a relationship feel safe, strong, intentional, and alive.
Then use your personalized growth path and Remy, your AI relationship coach trained in the Sexy Secure Love Method, to get relevant support as real situations happen.
The person you choose as your partner is not just someone you love.
They are the person you may build a home with, share money with, raise children with, make major life decisions with, have sex with, fight with, celebrate with, grieve with, age with, and spend thousands of ordinary days beside.
They will affect your emotional life, your nervous system, your finances, your family, your home, your future, and the way you experience your day-to-day life.
And you will affect theirs in all of those same ways.
This relationship is too consequential to leave entirely to chemistry, good intentions, or luck.
There is no single right way to have a relationship.
But there is a way to build your relationship well — around your values, needs, boundaries, agreements, desires, and the life you want to create together.
Untamed Intimacy gives you a way to understand what you are creating and strengthen it deliberately.
We can track our sleep score.
Our heart rate.
Our steps.
Our macros.
Our finances.
Our credit.
We can see where we are doing well, where something has changed, and what deserves more attention.
But with one of the most important parts of our lives, most of us are still working from:
“Something feels off.”
You might know that you are arguing more.
Or having less sex.
Or talking mostly about logistics.
Or carrying resentment.
Or feeling less close.
Or loving each other deeply while still getting stuck in the same pattern.
The missing piece is often not more advice. It is knowing which part of the relationship actually needs attention.
That is what Untamed Intimacy is designed to give you.
The Sexy Secure Love Assessment looks at 36 specific relationship capacities and turns your answers into your Sexy Secure Love Score.
You will see:
It is a way to stop guessing and get a more structured picture of the relationship you are actually living.
And over time, the goal is for your score to become something you can revisit — so you can see what is changing, what is strengthening, and where the relationship still needs attention.
The Sexy Secure Love Method looks at the relationship across four distinct layers.
Respect. Care. Integrity.
Can you handle difficult, sensitive, and vulnerable moments while still treating each other with respect, showing care, honoring boundaries, and following through on what you have agreed to?
Result: Safety + Stability
Ownership. Self-Leadership. Differentiation.
Can each of you take responsibility for your own feelings, choices, needs, boundaries, and behavior while staying in communication with the other person — without trying to manage, control, or take responsibility for everything they feel?
Result: Trust
Shared Direction. Relational Stewardship.
Do you know what kind of relationship and life you are trying to build together?
And are your roles, agreements, priorities, decisions, and everyday choices actually supporting it?
Result: Alignment + Harmony
Aliveness. Direction. Receptivity. Responsiveness.
Is there room for attraction, affection, admiration, play, desire, initiative, receiving, and emotional openness — so the relationship can be more than a well-run partnership…but actually feel erotically alive?
Result: Ecstasy
You should not have to explain your relationship from scratch every time you need help.
Remy is the AI relationship coach inside Untamed Intimacy, trained in the Sexy Secure Love Method and designed to build context about your relationship over time.
That means the support can reflect the relationship you are actually in, what you are trying to create, where you tend to get stuck, and what you are already working on.
Ask for help before a difficult conversation.
Work through what happened after a fight.
Find clearer language for a boundary.
Look at a recurring pattern.
Get perspective when it is 2:00 a.m. and you are right back in the same place again.
Support when real life is happening — not only when you have an appointment.
Think of it like a personal trainer for your relationship.
A good personal trainer does not give every person the exact same workout.
They look at where you are now.
What is already strong.
Where you need more support.
What your goals are.
And what you are actually capable of practicing consistently.
Your relationship deserves the same level of personalization.
Untamed Intimacy is being built as a Relationship OS that can turn what you learn from your Sexy Secure Love Score into a more personalized path forward.
ASSESS → UNDERSTAND → PRACTICE → TRACK → GET COACHED
Over time, the app is designed to help you:
You should not have to wait until your relationship is in crisis to start understanding it better.
Untamed Intimacy was founded by Ani & Lee Manian, a married couple, relationship educators, coaches, and co-teachers of the Sexy Secure Love Method.
The Method did not come only from studying relationships or coaching other people.
We use it inside our own marriage.
We have had to learn how to communicate differently, take responsibility for our own patterns, navigate conflict, clarify agreements, rethink roles, protect attraction and desire, and continue choosing the kind of relationship we want as our lives change.
We do not believe a great relationship is something you simply “find.”
And we do not believe love by itself automatically teaches two people how to build one.
A great relationship is something you learn how to create together.
That is the bigger mission behind Untamed Intimacy.
Most people receive more education about managing their money, building a career, exercising, or eating well than they ever receive about how to build the relationship that may affect nearly every part of their lives.
We want to change that.
We are building tools that make sophisticated relationship education easier to understand, easier to apply, and available long before a couple reaches a breaking point.
Because the goal is not simply to stay together.
It is to build a relationship that feels deeply safe AND ridiculously sexy.